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Stress counseling is a significant part of my practice, and you may ask what stress counseling means.
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In my anger management workshops, I tell my clients that it is very possible to view even a windfall like winning the lottery as a problem and create stressful physiology by thinking the total winnings are "not enough".
Stress counseling needs to include information on how fast my perceptions happen, (1/18th or 1/25th second depending on whether you are reading Cszikszentmihalyi or Ekman, which is twice as fast as I can blink my eyes), and how we are built in terms of responding to nonverbal cues like tone of voice and facial expressions, such as contempt.
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I really like the computerized tool of heart rate variability biofeedback as a stress counseling tool.
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Seem like too short a time to slow down? After all, heart beats might happen once per second, but your central nervous system works at least 18 times faster.
The good news is that you have been successful at this process thousands of times over your life.
For example, my daughter who is four years old, meandered into my office last night while I was working, without my noticing, and when she spoke, I was startled way beyond the usual startle response, and I could feel even as I jumped in my chair, a recognition of her voice and a realization that I was not in danger, and the starting of a calming.
Most of our startle or stress responses are handled naturally by the body, quickly, efficiently, as we interpret our situation as non-dangerous.
Stress becomes problematic when I keep the "danger" interpretation of physiolgy going too long.
For example, I was reading in our local paper how restaurants are going to respond to increased beef prices. I laughed a bit, because I know this will be stressful for my wife and children who are big fast food folks. They will worry and fuss about how to get the msg laden fast food and still pay cheap prices. Cannot be done.
I will stress about the high cost of beef in my crock pot. But maybe I can learn to cook some [url=http://www.sibsolidarnost.ru/index.php?option=com_xijc&view=captcha]hollister Is Spring The Best Season To Spend A Mon[/url] soups and breads to fill up on.
That later thought helps me calm down, because I love baking my own bread and cooking stews and soups.
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After all, my experience of reality exists only inside my head, and it is different than yours too. That is where all sensory data is processed.
My heart has a very sophisticated nervous system which can learn independently of my cranial brain.
That is amazing information which was unknown not too many years ago, and I can train heart intelligence to respond by regulating my heart beat with either deep breathing or pleasant thoughts or both, so once my heart intelligence learns this process, I can induce or cue the relaxation response associated with coherent heart beat for the heck of it, just to feel good.
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Oh, and the internal hormonal bath accompanying the heart rate variability biofeedback is DHEA, the anti-aging hormone.
Anti-aging is an inside job. Yes, it is, as is stress counseling, and I can learn to steer my heart beat so that it is on cruise control.
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